<h1 style="text-align: center;">The Tragedy of Excess: Losing Touch with Femininity</h1>
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<p>The more women you go through in the process of sowing your wild oats, or whether you plan on being a life long Don Juan, a playa till ya die sort of fella – the less interesting, the less connected, the less able you are to fully appreciate the beauty that is femininity and its pleasantness. The sad part is, in the West, there isn’t a whole lot of soft pleasant femininity around, so many guys are either forced or choose the life of pump and dumps, or others, blue pill poppers, who allow a girl to use him as a provider. The problem with this <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2021/05/10/5-things-that-make-you-beta-in-a-relationship/" rel="dofollow">player mentality</a> is emotional estrangement that creeps in as numbers rise.</p>
<h2>Rare Commitment and the Player Lifestyle</h2>
<p>It is rare, more rare in modern days than previous when you see two people, <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=22">man and wife</a>, that work, that accept each others roles, enhance each other, love each other, and most importantly have some investment and real commitment in each other. These couples, who are sadly the exception to the rule, are the only thing each should be searching for – but because of its rarity, and the ease of access to pussy, and the lack of desire for most western women to be reserved, men and women stay in the mating game longer. Women hit the wall and cease to be attractive if they don’t marry the man she wants, whereas if a man doesn’t have game, looks, and/or money, he’ll resort to video games or computer programming. However, I’m here to talk about the player… the men who have good game, and use it to <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia/Australian-Capital-Territory/city-of-Canberra.html?page=82">have an affair as many women</a> as they can. Banging women is one of the most pleasurable and fulfilling things a man can do, men have written a billion words about it, I’ve written about it, movies made about it, tv shows, porn – people love banging.</p>
<h2>The Tragedy of Lost Wonder and Sentiment</h2>
<p>I would never suggest that men shouldn’t bang away… in fact just writing this is giving me the urge to bang a girl now, like right now… hold on. (1 hour later)… okay, what was I saying? Right, the downside of banging a plethora of babes. First off, let’s set some guidelines — talking about numbers at least over 20. A man with fewer can still recount all his bangs in detail. But for true Lotharios, the pleasure and pure enjoyment outside physical exaltation wanes with each new experience. Once the excitement, innocence, wonder, silliness, and submission of girls start to fade, you become estranged from women; you can seduce sure, but your lust fouls. Each girl blends into one another, and you may confuse stories from different girls.</p>
<p>To avoid the numbness and maintain genuine connection, <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/14/how-to-be-what-women-want/" rel="dofollow">mindset cultivation</a> is essential beyond physical encounters.</p>
<p>The tragedy with banging chicks is that the part which made you want different girls — new wonder and pleasure — fades. Your brain and soul build a tolerance to new experiences. The double-edged sword is you need more or grander experiences to feel excitement. Like anything else, you can overdo it. For sustainable relationships and growth explore <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/03/20/10-helpful-tips-for-a-healthy-relationship/" rel="dofollow">healthy relationship guidance</a>.</p>
<p>Like anything else, you can overdo it.</p>
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